<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Soultribe Media]]></title><description><![CDATA[Soultribe Media]]></description><link>https://www.soultribe.media/dear-aunty</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2026 09:42:34 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.soultribe.media/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Dear Aunty Am I Repeating My Mother's Patterns]]></title><description><![CDATA[Dear Aunty I noticed something scary. I made a resolution to fix my finances and relationships, but I realized I’m doing exactly what my mother did at my age. I feel like I’m stuck in a loop. How do I stop this ‘New Year, Same Struggle’ cycle so I don’t pass it to my kids. Am I Repeating My Mother's Patterns?  — Breaking the Chain Aunty's Response This is the bravest question you could ask. Most people sleepwalk through their family karma, but you? You just woke up.   What you are describing...]]></description><link>https://www.soultribe.media/post/am-i-repeating-my-mothers-patterns</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69cd7f8e40e74dbec4fc0dd3</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2026 20:27:01 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/c72b01_07a5f208a702476b951ee2ef11676cbc~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Dear Aunty: My 2026 vision board is ready, so why do I still feel stuck in 2025?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Dear Aunty I spent New Year’s Eve setting my intentions. My 2026 vision board is full of affirmations, career goals, and everything I say I want. But honestly? I still feel stuck—like I’m dragging last year’s weight behind me. Why does it feel like I can’t start fresh, even when I want to?  — Signed, Trying But Tired Aunty's Response Baby, let’s tell the truth. You can’t build a new house on old dirt.  You’ve done the vision work—but not the clearing work. You’re trying to plant 2026 seeds in...]]></description><link>https://www.soultribe.media/post/dear-aunty-my-2026-vision-board-is-ready-so-why-do-i-still-feel-stuck-in-2025-1</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69cd7f67f7044e6cf7a67800</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2026 20:26:38 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/c72b01_bf6a26e6f9af4da4909167ec6e87d8f8~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Dear Aunty - Breaking the pattern]]></title><description><![CDATA[Dear Aunty I grew up in a single-parent household, watching my mother carry more weight than one person should. She worked tirelessly to provide for me and my baby brother, and because of that, I had to grow up fast. I never had that steady presence of a father to tell me I was enough, to affirm me, to model what love from a man should look like. Because of that, I went searching for it. I gave my love away too easily, thinking if I could just be enough for someone, they wouldn’t leave. But...]]></description><link>https://www.soultribe.media/post/dear-aunty-breaking-the-pattern</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69cd7e4c535e7bcd2695d192</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2026 20:25:22 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/c72b01_70b140cea5c246d8b59c91b35b054149~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Dear Aunty - Staying Grounded in Times of Financial Uncertainty]]></title><description><![CDATA[Dear Aunty Let’s be real, Soul Tribe—money worries can shake even the strongest of us. You can be doing everything “right,” paying the bills, showing up for work, trying to build your dreams—and still feel like you’re one unexpected expense away from falling apart. It’s heavy. It’s exhausting. It can make you question your worth and your future. And when that fear sets in, it’s like your peace goes missing. Your mind runs circles around “what ifs,” your heart gets tight, and your spirit...]]></description><link>https://www.soultribe.media/post/dear-aunty-staying-grounded-in-times-of-financial-uncertainty</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69cd7cbb011a766e716b7bf8</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2026 20:20:43 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/c72b01_51d70014a65c48e0b1a9fc7c4d598324~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Dear Aunty - I'm living by other people standards]]></title><description><![CDATA[Dear Aunty I’ve lived much of my life by someone else’s standards and rules. For as long as I can remember, I’ve been doing what was expected of me—pleasing my family, following the advice of teachers, and walking the straight line that seemed safest. Now I am 25, fresh out of college, and looking at the world with new eyes. The degree I worked so hard for is solid, practical, and secure. It promises stability, a steady paycheck, and a path that many people would consider “successful.” But if...]]></description><link>https://www.soultribe.media/post/dear-aunty-i-m-living-by-other-people-standards</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69cd7b79535e7bcd2695cb72</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2026 20:13:51 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/c72b01_f02f0ed96b7443fda8c751e062833a3d~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item></channel></rss>